Kindness and care is much better than just saying whatever you feel because you think you gave the right to say whatever you want – just because you want to – even if it hurts the person you say you are about

Careless words
From someone who knows nothing
About what I do
Shows how careless you are about keeping a relationship with someone who’s only been nice to you and whose been there for you when you’re not so great yourself
Actually to be honest ( since you don’t care about feelings so why should I?)
You’re not in the greatest shape either
And you’re not at perfect as you tell people they should be
I run around all day
Work my ass off
Make time to be creative
Have self awareness
Have love and care without judgement
And know my place
I would keep something that I know would hurt you
Maybe you should look in the mirror and see yourself and worry about that before
You want to pick me apart when I’ve never done that to you
Who the fuck do you think you are?
You’re no expert in health and wellness
I’m hurt because I thought you were better than this
Becsuse you had been treated similar to the way you treated me today
And all I was trying to do was slow you some goodness and kindness
And acceptance
And for what?
So you can say shit that has nothing to do with helping me
All it does is harm and hurt me.
And worst of all
You would rather be right
And say whatever you want that you know is hurtful
When no one asked you
But even worse is that you would rather say whatever you want just because you can
Without thinking about how it might make me feel
Because you don’t care about how you make me feel
You only care about acting like you know me better than I know myself
Which is so not true
Maybe your ex said what she said because she did not care about hurting you
And who wants to be with someone like that
Not me
Ruin all your relationships by doing exactly what you don’t like being done to you – to people who actually treat you well
I appreciate kindness and care
And that equates to love
If you can’t be kind or caring to someone
Then you really don’t need
That person to be around you at all
Find someone who treats you like shit
That seems to be what you like anyways
And you’re sorry means nothing when it’s backed up by an excuse to why you feel justified to say whatever you feel without thinking about how you make the person. If you cared. You would think about those things and not say something that makes them feel less loved and less accepted and more judged.