I forgot about these red flags we came up with as well

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Major Red Flags

• Lies — even little ones.
• Hot one day, cold the next.
• Hides phone or won’t let you near it
• Never takes blame for anything.
• Only wants to hang out late or in private.
• Avoids talking about the future.
• You’ve never met their friends or family.
• Disappears when things get serious.
• Makes you feel guilty for having needs.
• .Subtle disrespect masked as humor
• “Jokes” that make you uncomfortable.
• Backhanded compliments (“You’re not like other girls”).
  👉 Early boundary testing = future boundary breaking.
• You feel like you have to prove you’re chill. You minimize your needs to keep the peace. You start performing “cool girl” energy. If peace depends on silence, it’s not peace.
• You feel anxious more than happy.
• Says “I’m not ready for a relationship” but acts like you’re together.
• Always has an excuse — for everything.

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