The pursuer-distancer pattern Therapist Dr. Harriet Lerner summarizes the pattern like this. A partner with pursuing behavior tends to respond to relationship stress by moving toward the other. They seek communication, discussion, togetherness, and expression. They are urgent in their efforts to fix what they think is wrong. They are anxious about the distance their partner has created and take it personally.
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